Thursday, December 2, 2010

Hot chocolate on a cold wintry night !



  • 1/2 cup semisweet chocolate chips
  • 1/2 cup milk
  • 1/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon
  • 1 dash hot chili powder
  • Tiny pinch of salt
  • 1/2 cup cold milk.

Combine the chocolate chips and milk in a saucepan on high, stirring every 20 to 30 seconds, until melted and smooth. Mix in the salt, cinnamon, and hot chili powder. Stir in the cold milk. Strain into 2 mugs. Thin with additional milk, if desired.





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Monday, November 15, 2010

Just a (pretty darn good) burger!

Cooked to order, flame-flavored, moist and juicy .. that's what we'd call a pretty darn good hamburger! There's hardly any doubt in the veracity of this statement.

Here is a list of destinations that will strive to satiate the
burger-lovers tastebuds with hand-crafted cheeseburger perfection.


The Burger Joint, New York, NY
Le Parker Meridien @118 W 57th St (between 6th & 7th Ave)
Tucked away behind red velvet curtains in the imposing atrium lobby of Le Parker Meridian Hotel is a shack-like burger place that serves burger perfection! The grub is a standard-sized hamburger, with perfectly melted cheese and "the works"(everything on it)

Oh, and don't forget to pair your cheeseburger with shoestring fries (thrown into a paper bag) and a pitcher of Sam Adams (the only beer sold here). They serve root beer/soda too.


Good to know before you go: Cash-only, limited seating, the booth seating is worth waiting around for. Also this place sort of invites graffiti on their walls, and we very creatively scrawled our initials too :)









The Dram Shop, Brooklyn, NY
339 9th St (between 5th Ave & 6th Ave)
This bar-like setup serves a fast-food style burger. The recipe has been a closely guarded family secret since it was conceived in Dallas more than 60 years ago. But there's definitely yellow mustard and sliced pickles somewhere in between the buns and the square patties, that adds a great tang to the whole experience.


Petey’s Burger, Astoria, NY

30-17 30th Ave., nr. 31st St. 718-267-6300
It’s kind of In-N-Out inspired. So go expecting to find a burger you'd find at a California drive-in:
The quintessential meat patty sandwich overstuffed with iceberg lettuce, tomatoes, thinly sliced onions and melted American cheese. A special (Thousand Island-like) sauce drips all over and all of this comes wrapped in waxed paper to add to the old-school experience. This is definitely fast-food that can rival the West Coast braggarts :)

(Tip: Try the double cheese with sauce and extra-crispy fries - $9 )


R.U.B. BBQ, New york, NY
208 W 23rd St (between 7th Ave & 8th Ave)
The thin, salty, juicy patty, made from equal parts of brisket and short rib meat, is served in a buttery bun with sweet pickles and American cheese. The result is a steak-like mouthful with an added kick from the chipotle aioli.
This place is also known to serve the Jucy Lucy, a cheese-stuffed burger that is a specialty of Minneapolis.
Good to know before you go: These phenomenal burger meals are only served on Mondays 6pm-9pm, in limited quantities .. makes it more special


Blue 9 Burger, New york, NY
92 3rd Ave (between 12th St & 2nd Ave)
An NYU haunt, this is another burger destination that is almost an In-N-Out taste-alike.


More recommendations coming up soon.
In the meantime, we are also going to perfect the skill of cooking and serving burgers in their most elemental form - just beef and bun - gradually we aspire to inject more creativity, such as that of a Jucy Lucy into one of our favorite foods of all time! :)

Monday, October 18, 2010

Coffee, Bagels, Doughnuts .. an American Breakfast in NYC

While in search of a great cuppa coffee, some fresh bagels and sweet breakfast treats, there's one place that won't leave you the least bit disappointed - New York City!

Pop's Coffee Shop
4429A Kissena Blvd
Flushing, NY 11355
Neighborhoods: Flushing, NY

A great-tasting coffee shop that's really a diner - a true, surviving American icon in the neighborhood


Letys Bakery
7707 37th Ave
Jackson Heights, NY 11372
Neighborhood: Jackson Heights
, NY
A local bakery that offers universal confectionery treats paired with a great cup of coffee


Brooklyn Bagel & Coffee Shop
35-05 Broadway
Astoria, NY 11106
Neighborhood: Astoria
, NY
Perfectly crafted, super-sized bagels with a wide selection of cream cheese to go along --- there's no stale, cardboard taste here but only the real New York Bagel experience.


Baruir's
4007 Queens Blvd
Sunnyside, NY 11104
Neighborhood: Sunnyside
, NY
Solid yet inexpensive coffee. Additionally, the ice-cubes made from coffee floating in your cold coffee are a streak of pure genius - no need to drink diluted coffee again!


Alpha Donuts
45-1 Queens Blvd
Sunnyside, NY 11104
Neighborhood: Sunnyside
, NY
A search for the best French crullers in the city will certainly get you here! Besides serving other Boston cream, Chocolate glazed doughnut varieties, this retro diner setup also offers a terrific home style breakfast.






Flavorful Indian cuisine in New York

A narrowed down assortment of what I feel may be just some of the best NYC places to load up on the authentic flavors of Indian cooking. Easy on the wallet too!

Mumbai Xpress
25605 Hillside Ave
Floral Park, NY 11004
Neighborhood: Bellerose, NY

This place doesn't shy away from trying to recreate Bombay street food and manages to whip up 'almost-alike' versions of the original Franki, Pav bhaji, Spring Rolls and Wada Pav :)

Tandoori Hut
119-04 94th Ave
Richmond Hill, NY 11418

Neighborhood: Richmond Hill, NY
There is nothing even remotely 'mild spicy' about this no-nonsense Punjabi eatery!

Southern Spice
143-06 45th Ave
Flushing, NY 11355
Neighborhood: Flushing, NY
For the lovers of fish curries and tangy tamarind/tomato based rasams from the South Indian states.

Sagar Sweet Restaurant
16825A Hillside Ave
Jamaica, NY 11432
Neighborhood: Jamaica, NY
Head to this Bengali cuisine house if your taste buds are craving an ultimate chicken biryani and kebabs

Ganesha Temple Canteen
45-57 Bowne St
Flushing, NY 11355
Neighborhoods: Flushing, Murray Hill

The food is a delight to a fan of the coconutty, rice-based, vegetarian South-Indian cuisine. The seating is public high school cafeteria like and the prices are extremely affordable.

Thakali Kitchen

74-14 37th Ave
Jackson Heights, NY 11372
Neighborhood: Jackson Heights, NY
For the delicate but delectable flavors of Himalayan/Nepalese momos, aloo chilly and pork thukpa. Don't forget to sip on some salty butter tea!

Enjoy the flavor eruption :)

Monday, October 4, 2010

Honeymoon suites with private pools n more :)

I have heard about almost all of these, could be affordable too esp in low season :

This one is in the Maldives and is super expensive I think, Kalpi/Sid went here:
Alila Villa Hadahaa:

Again Maldives, Dee went here:

worlds Sexiest beaches :-)



Tuesday, September 28, 2010

The world's best Chocolate Chip cookies


Can you really beat the plain chocolate chip cookie? Or perhaps, the same cookie loaded with a double dose of chocolate chunks and nuts. Or maybe dunked in a glass of cold milk.
Probably not :))

Nestle Toll House cookies has been handing out the recipe for the 'best tasting chocolate chip cookies' for over half a century now. And we do know that thousands of moms across America have been baking this recipe in their kitchens and feeding their kids, what to each of them tastes like the 'world's best chocolate chip cookies ever'.

And really, this famous classic American cookie is a treat no matter what the age or occasion!

I haven't tried the Nestle Toll House recipe yet, but not so long ago I tried making a couple of batches of chocolate chips/walnut cookies for Christmas. Did I, in my maiden attempt, succeed in turning a bowl of uncooked batter into a sweet goodness of chunks that just melted in the mouth?
Honestly, I didn't even get close.

They were sweet but overcooked, crunchy but insanely tough, and I think one batch just tasted (and even looked) like sweetened mud cakes! I remember trying to serve them in a pretty looking glass bowl to everyone who visited my home during the holiday season and it wasn't long before their polite "No thank you" turned into a glaring "What will you take to keep those mud sliders away from us?" I am sincerely sorry to have subjected my poor friends and loyal tasters to such ruthless, stomach-wrenching rounds of tasting.

Oh well, someday I still aspire to be the mom who makes the world's best chocolate chip cookies :))

But until then I have decided to explore the territories of other, better-experienced and well-known bakers. In short, I will just be visiting some popular bakeries around to sample some delicious molten goodness of chocolate and flour :))

Levain Bakery Manhattan, NY
"a monster-sized disk of gooey chocolate with a cake-like chewy texture"

Almondine Brooklyn, NY
"Fabulously chewy, moderately gooey, and absolutely delicious"

"chocolatey, with plenty of chips"


Try these out, and remember to have your glass of creamy, ice cold milk ready!

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Smile ..

Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love,
a gift to that person, a beautiful thing
.”
~ Mother Teresa

Do you remember how you felt when you were suddenly greeted with a genuine smile? Or when you were standing awkwardly in a subway car full of strangers and someone suddenly smiled at you for no reason at all? It is really contagious and elevates your entire mood to a positive state.

Begin by smiling more often at family and friends. Smile as you make your way through a busy day. Try smiling at passing by strangers. Most importantly, smile genuinely :))

Overall spreading happiness by smiling is just an amazing experience ... and you never know who is falling in love with your smile :)) Of course, there's the added bonus that they might even smile back!

Friday, August 13, 2010

1000 Awesome Things!

So here's a blog that is really all about spreading happy thoughts.
How does it do that? By simply adding an 'awesome' thing to it's growing list of 1000 Awesome things

Read, enjoy and smile :))

And the feeling you get is just, pure Awesome !

Monday, August 9, 2010

Healthy Choices When Eating Out

These tips (found at WebMD.com) will help in making your eating out experiences healthy and enjoyable while keeping the levels of fat and cholesterol in your meals low.

Try doing this before you order your food:

  • If you are familiar with the menu, decide what to order before entering the restaurant. This tactic will help you avoid any tempting foods that may not be so healthy.
  • If you are trying a new restaurant, take time study the menu in order to avoid making unhealthy decisions.
  • Have the server remove temptations (butter, for example) from the table.
  • Drink two full glasses of water before your food arrives.
  • Avoid foods described in the following way: buttery, buttered, fried, pan-fried, creamed, escalloped, au gratin (with cheese), or a la mode (with ice cream).
  • If you want to eat bread, choose Melba toast or whole-grain rolls without butter or margarine.

Try doing this when you order your food:

  • Order foods that are steamed, broiled, grilled, stir-fried, or roasted.
  • Order potatoes baked, boiled, or roasted instead of fried. Ask the server to leave off the butter and sour cream.
  • Order first so that you will not be influenced by other's choices.
  • For appetizers, order broth-based soups such as minestrone or gazpacho.
  • Choose seafood, chicken, or lean meat rather than fatty meats; remove all visible fat from any meat.
  • Order broiled, baked, grilled, steamed or poached entrees
  • Ask the server to substitute low-fat foods for high-fat foods. For example, ask for steamed vegetables instead of fries.
  • Ask the chef to remove the skin from poultry and to prepare your food without butter or cream sauces. Or ask for the sauce on the side so you can control how much you eat.
  • Ask the server about ingredients or preparation methods for the dishes you're not familiar with.
  • Order vegetable side dishes without sauces or butter or ask them to put them on the side.
  • For dessert, order sorbet or fresh, seasonal fruit without whipped cream or a topping.

Salad Tips

  • When choosing from a salad bar, avoid items like grated cheese, prepared salads, cream dressings, chopped eggs, bacon bits and croutons.
  • Use a squeeze of lemon instead of dressing on salads. Or try rice vinegar or balsamic vinegar.
  • If you opt for dressing on your salad, order the dressing on the side. Dip your salad fork into the dressing, then into the salad. You will consume less dressing if you just get a taste of it on each mouthful of salad, rather than pouring it over the salad.

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

The Giving Pledge Club

In a letter where he pledges to give away almost all of his wealth to philanthropy, Warren Buffet explains the basis for his decision in one of his inspiring letters:

"In 2006, I made a commitment to gradually give all of my Berkshire Hathaway stock to philanthropic foundations. I couldn't be happier with that decision.

Now, Bill and Melinda Gates and I are asking hundreds of rich Americans to pledge at least 50% of their wealth to charity. So I think it is fitting that I reiterate my intentions and explain the thinking that lies behind them.

First, my pledge: More than 99% of my wealth will go to philanthropy during my lifetime or at death. Measured by dollars, this commitment is large. In a comparative sense, though, many individuals give more to others every day.

Millions of people who regularly contribute to churches, schools, and other organizations thereby relinquish the use of funds that would otherwise benefit their own families. The dollars these people drop into a collection plate or give to United Way mean forgone movies, dinners out, or other personal pleasures. In contrast, my family and I will give up nothing we need or want by fulfilling this 99% pledge.

Moreover, this pledge does not leave me contributing the most precious asset, which is time. Many people, including -- I'm proud to say -- my three children, give extensively of their own time and talents to help others. Gifts of this kind often prove far more valuable than money. A struggling child, befriended and nurtured by a caring mentor, receives a gift whose value far exceeds what can be bestowed by a check. My sister, Doris, extends significant person-to-person help daily. I've done little of this.

What I can do, however, is to take a pile of Berkshire Hathaway stock certificates -- "claim checks" that when converted to cash can command far-ranging resources -- and commit them to benefit others who, through the luck of the draw, have received the short straws in life. To date about 20% of my shares have been distributed (including shares given by my late wife, Susan Buffett). I will continue to annually distribute about 4% of the shares I retain. At the latest, the proceeds from all of my Berkshire shares will be expended for philanthropic purposes by 10 years after my estate is settled. Nothing will go to endowments; I want the money spent on current needs.

This pledge will leave my lifestyle untouched and that of my children as well. They have already received significant sums for their personal use and will receive more in the future. They live comfortable and productive lives. And I will continue to live in a manner that gives me everything that I could possibly want in life.

Some material things make my life more enjoyable; many, however, would not. I like having an expensive private plane, but owning a half-dozen homes would be a burden. Too often, a vast collection of possessions ends up possessing its owner. The asset I most value, aside from health, is interesting, diverse, and long-standing friends.

My wealth has come from a combination of living in America, some lucky genes, and compound interest. Both my children and I won what I call the ovarian lottery. (For starters, the odds against my 1930 birth taking place in the U.S. were at least 30 to 1. My being male and white also removed huge obstacles that a majority of Americans then faced.) My luck was accentuated by my living in a market system that sometimes produces distorted results, though overall it serves our country well. I've worked in an economy that rewards someone who saves the lives of others on a battlefield with a medal, rewards a great teacher with thank-you notes from parents, but rewards those who can detect the mispricing of securities with sums reaching into the billions. In short, fate's distribution of long straws is wildly capricious.

The reaction of my family and me to our extraordinary good fortune is not guilt, but rather gratitude. Were we to use more than 1% of my claim checks on ourselves, neither our happiness nor our well-being would be enhanced. In contrast, that remaining 99% can have a huge effect on the health and welfare of others. That reality sets an obvious course for me and my family: Keep all we can conceivably need and distribute the rest to society, for its needs. My pledge starts us down that course."

A total of 40 U.S. billionaires have pledged to give away at least 50 percent of their wealth as part of a campaign by investor Warren Buffett and Microsoft founder Bill Gates, which was initiated in June 2010. The Giving Pledge is this very effort to invite the wealthiest individuals and families in America to commit to giving the majority of their wealth to the philanthropic causes and charitable organizations of their choice either during their lifetime or after their death.

Monday, August 2, 2010

The Impossible Dream

About the age of fourteen, I remember reading this article in school as a part of the coursework. It's written by Art Buchwald, a Pulitzer Prize winning American columnist. Read on as Buchwald talks about his experience while sharing a ride with a friend in New York City:

I was in New York City the other day and rode with a friend in a taxi. When we got out my friend said to the driver, "Thank you for the ride. You did a superb job of driving."

The taxi driver was stunned for a second. Then he said, "Are you a wise guy or something?"

"No my dear man, and I'm not putting you on. I admire the way you keep cool in heavy traffic."

"Yeah, sure!" the driver said and drove off.

"What was that all about?" I asked.

"I'm trying to put love back in New York City," my friend said. "I believe it's the only thing that can save the city."

"How can one man save New York City?" I asked.

"It's not one man. I believe I have made the taxi driver's day. Suppose he has 20 fares. He's going to be nice to those 20 fares because someone was nice to him. Those fares in turn will be kinder to their employees or shop-keepers or waiters or even their own families. Eventually the goodwill could spread to at least 1000 people. Now that isn't bad, is it?" he asked.

"But you're depending on the taxi driver to pass your goodwill to others," I responded.

"I'm not depending on it," he said. "I'm aware that the system isn't foolproof so I might deal with 10 different people today. It, out of 10, I can make 3 happy then eventually I can indirectly influence the attitudes of 3000 more."

"It sounds good on paper," I admitted, "but I'm not sure it works in practice."

"Nothing is lost if it doesn't," he stated. "It didn't take any of my time to tell the man he was doing a good job. He neither received a larger tip nor a smaller tip. If it fell on deaf ears, so what? Tomorrow there will be another taxi driver who I can try to make happy."

"You're some kind of a nut," I said.

"That shows how cynical you have become," he exclaimed. "I have made a study of this. The thing that seems to be lacking, besides money of course, for our postal employees is that no one tells people who work for the post office what a good job they're doing."

"But they're not doing a good job," I responded.

"They're not doing a good job," he replied, "because they feel no one cares if they do or not. Why shouldn't someone say a kind word to them?"

We were walking past a structure in the process of being built and passed five workmen eating their lunch. My friend stopped, "That is a magnificent job you men have been doing. When will it be finished?"

"June," a man grunted.

"Ah. That really is impressive. You must be very proud," he stated. We walked away. I said to him, "I haven't seen anyone like you since 'The Man from La Mancha'."

"When those men digest my words, they will feel better for it," he said. "Somehow the city will benefit from their happiness."

"But you can't do this all alone!" I protested. "You're just one man."

"The most important thing is not to get discouraged," he responded. "Making people in this city become kind again is not an easy job, but if I can enlist other people in my campaign..."

"You just winked at a very plain looking woman," I said.

"Yes, I know," he replied. "And if she's a school teacher, her class will be in for a fantastic day!"


This article by Buchwald was originally titled Love and the Cabbie. But I remember it titled '
The Impossible Dream' in my coursework at school, which I feel fits the article quite aptly! Though I stumbled across this years ago, it has been among those precious pieces of text that I have still retained in my conscious mind. It reminds me to practise the simple act of trying to spread a few kind messages to the people whose paths I cross.

A broad smile, a soft gesture, a little helping deed .. all can go a long way in lifting many a heavy hearts that we come across as we traverse the tapestry of our living days! And remember, though 'saving' an entire population may seem like an impossible dream, the most important thing, as Art Buchwald's friend puts it 'is not to get discouraged' :) Just want to add to this by stating, that kindness like charity should begin in our own homes. Practising simple acts of kindness in our families, will enable us to naturally radiate the same feeling to strangers when we step outside our homes.

On a slightly off note, it was
during the time I had read this article that I developed the earliest feelings of wanting to visit, explore and experience life in NYC .. which has been a substantial part of my life for the past several years :D

Friday, July 23, 2010

Bargains all year round

There are bargain shopping deals for each month of the year. For bargain prices on the right items at the right time, click here.

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Adventure trips around the world

Just sticking a link about some not so commonly heard of adventure trips from around the world.

I also think that some of these can be quite romantic :) Pedaling in and out of French wineries, riding horseback across the Yellowstone National Park or kayaking through the waters in the Chilean terrains to reach the Pacific ocean ... ummmm, I'm already lovin' it!

Monday, July 12, 2010

... about true love

Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails ...

- A verse from 1 Corinthians, chapter 13

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Seventy feet under ...




Destination: Farmington, New Mexico, USA (famous Four Corners region of the U.S)



Attraction: A home 70 feet below the earth - a cave really! Kokopelli's Cave Bed & Breakfast


Things to do: Watch the sun set over 4 states from the balcony and by the night, all-you-can-do stargazing.


Travel dates: Soon .. anytime now!





















Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Treesort - A vacation on the tree top!


Destination: Takilma, Oregon, USA

Attraction: Houses (.. furniture, bathtubs, gazebos, etc) that hang from trees!


Travel dates: Open year round, but definitely warmer from June - October.

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Readings n Musings

While reading 'Mennonite in a Little Black Dress - A Memoir of Going Home" - by Rhoda Janzen, I came across a lot of quotes I really felt like retaining in my memory.
In one of the later chapter's, when Rhoda talks about a chat with her Mennonite mother, she quotes her Ma's feelings about religion (in general):

"When you are young religion is so much about what is right and wrong, what you should do and not do. When you turn older, you realize that your religion is about your relationship with God, with those around you, with the community you live in."

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

The Great American Road Trip


Driving down classic two-lane American roads, passing by great displays of neon signs, rusty middle-of-nowhere truck shops, all-time favorite pop numbers "I would walk 500-miles" playing on the car stereo .. all along just making that unforgettable journey through diverse American landscapes and people .... welcome to The Great American Road Trip!


The Mother Road or The Historic Route 66 will be the road of choice for parts of the trip, mainly in states of AZ, NM and TX. This historic route will turn your mini-van into a time machine! Spring coincidentally happens to be the best time to drive along this corridor. The journey along this route can be comfortably done in a week, along with a few detours planned for attractions.

Destination State 1: Colorado (Fly in city Denver )
Attractions: Great Sand Dunes National Park
Cities: Denver, Colorado Springs

Destination State 2: Utah
Attractions Stops: The Bonneville Salt Flats, Capitol Reef National Park
Cities: Salt Lake City

Destination State 3: Arizona
Attractions Stops: Route 66, Oatman Old Ghost Town
Cities: Flagstaff, Phoenix

Destination State 4: New Mexico
Possible Attractions: Carlsbad Caverns, Route 66, El Rancho Hotel and Motel
Cities: Albuquerque, Gallup

Destination State 5: Texas (Fly out city Austin)
Attractions: Route 66, Interstate 10 (U.S.-Mexico Border) & Route 90, Big Bend National Park
Cities: El Paso to Marathon, Austin

OR
Drive along Route 66 crossing Way point destination states: Oklahoma, Kansas, Missouri and Illinois (Fly out city - Chicago)

Major classic road trip routes: Historic Route 66 also (States covered: at least AZ, NM, TX and OK, KN, MO, IL if possible ) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/U.S._Route_66



More information building up .. comments are welcome.

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

I like to save some thoughts, feelings (& qoutes) for later.. just in case :)

I smile sometimes, I cry sometimes; I live sometimes...no reason... just

A great way to get people to co-operate is a smile :)

I'm trying to pack...I take everything I don't need, leave everything I DO need behind...

Off to the airport... I hate standing in queues... Why can't we all just love each other, so then we wouldn't need security checks?

I've decided to maybe start writing, not a script....just thoughts in general...There are way too many thoughts in my head :)

Thursday, January 21, 2010

Realization!

Today I attended a celebration with my friends. A celebration of a close friend who is going to be wed to her beloved!
The momentous, fun-filled evening which only grew to be wilder and crazier, proved to be an experience of a lifetime. Not that it was extremely outer world-like or eye-opening in any sane way, but it did reinforce some deeper thoughts and emotions that some of us had been struggling to position in priority within our individual minds.

Our friend of a several years, is absolutely in shape for one of the most memorable steps in her life. The early symptoms of the precarious, cold feet have eased out of her mind and the strong-rooted veins of responsibility have been gradually making home in her heart. She, who has mostly , always been level-headed in her ways has found what will just add more strength, texture and color to the warps and woofs of her own life :)) And the feeling that occupies her aura is mostly that of subtle contentment and a deep conviction at multiple levels. Which according to many, can definitely constitute to the raw but stable beginnings of a new marriage!

As the evening progressed into enjoyment, amusement and climaxed into laughter and hearty conversations, we grew more aware of what marriage can substantiate to in many of our lives. What I derived is that marriage can certainly not qualify as a 'destination' and least of all a 'milestone', but rather is just a 'way-point' in your yet to be explored travel itinerary! Well that certainly relaxed my guts a bit on the whole frontier that I had been building up towards marriage.

I mean, if you treat marriage as a way-point in your life's travels, you can most assuredly give up the fears that accompany the feeling of it being an end destination or boundary stop, no? "End of bachelorhood", "Game-over", "An overload of responsibilities" ,,, Most of these notorious adages would then sound like a faint rattling in the distance. Once your vehicle makes through this way-point, you just enter into a usual world of more way-points, some more ordinary milestones and maybe some extra-ordinary en-route destinations. Nothing that you wouldn't pass otherwise, it's just a slightly different path you would traverse due to the presence and influence of a whole different set of people (& forces) in the journey of your life.

As we descended the high (fun) point of the evening into some of these deeper emotional exchanges, we eased into a comfortable territory of enlightened awareness. It made me ponder on just how much of what we exactly wanted. I derived the answers to some of my own questions and we bid goodbye with a pocketful of some thought-provoking take-aways :)

The evening was a great mix of lighthearted fun and deep-rooted conversational exchanges with a high dosage of emotional bonding among friends!
And to my soon to be wedded friends, Cheers to a lifetime of excitement and discovery .. as you grow older together with each other!! You guys are right, "The best is still to come" :))